ENGAGED FOREVER….

 

In the journey of life we come across billions of passers-by. Among them the existence of millions of personalities doesn’t make any difference as they just show up and disappear. Thousands of them we are familiarise with from the distant and most probably they come along our way at some distance. Hundreds of them share a same pavement with us and in some way they become a part of our life. However among them a very few selected groups are there which in a way connected by our karma (since I am a Buddhist then I follow the law of karma) will walk along the way no matter how long the distant they carry. Every individual in this category plays are crucial role who smoothly aid to lead and activate the journey of life and are disguise in the form of family, friends and other close ones. And I counted myself in the list of those fortunate one who is blessed with these treasures who are the source of my living with happiness. I was a pampered child from the early stage of my life. And from then onwards I have appreciated that the biggest gift divine for me is my family whose pure and unwavering love and care bound me and protected me all the time but I never figure out that I am also blessed with bunch of people whose unconditional love and incomparable affection safeguarded me and whom I offer a higher designation than a common friend.

Yes that is true that after joining my university I met with many people some as a friend and some in the form of teacher and some cared me as a sister. Among them there are only few of them who evidenced that they are the one who truly consider me. Here true consideration counts for one who does not stand with my physical appearance and my status. Rather those are the individuals who accepted and considered me who actually I am as a person and as a human being irrespective of all my flaws and shortcomings. When I converse about friend then I am very selective about my friend list from the beginning. I consider people as my friend only when they matched my description of friends and when my heart accepts them to be in that category otherwise for me ‘My kind of Friend’ is not something we chat, move around and eat together. That is the prime reason why my friend circle is quite small compared to others nevertheless what I can proudly state is that my bunch of friends are someone I can engage with throughout my life without any regrets.

When filtering and pondering upon those friends list then I tied up with three best of friends who compel me to comprehend that I am a very fortunate one for being with them. My concern towards them is sometime very small compared to theirs. Their occurrence signifies that they are beyond comparison and definitely are above than other common friends. They honoured me by giving great consideration towards me and in that way even money could fail to meddle in our indestructible trust.

Further if I do count, among them also one is the most special one for me and to be clear it is not that I regard him special in the beginning but he earned that title for himself by leading me towards such direction that rarely someone can do. He is the one for whom if I try to describe the way he treats me then the words aren’t enough. He is just beyond words. From the initial stage of our familiarization he treats me so well as if he owes me something. And that kind of impression strengthens along with the passage of time. Initially I thought that it was just an infatuation which normally people encounter during their first few meetings and will gradually fade. However, his perception and action proved me wrong. As I realised that the more we get along the more his concern towards me enhances.

As I mentioned you about the role of Karma then that plays a great role here as well. Lately I could trace the connection of those dots. As karma played such a role that it gulps the years of gaps and left us on the same track as a classmate. However, he actually stepped in my life when I was challenging physically; not recovered well from the illness. Despite of all my problems he always stood firmly beside me no matter in what circumstances. And the remarkable part of him was that he never boasted me of what he had done for me which some time sounds very unreal in today’s world. Being with him I have understood that when it comes to my case he becomes so selfless which he also mentioned that he realised so. To prove this statement, let me share you a small incident (small according to him but from my side was something hard to digest). During our summer vacation, I left my medicine in the university and I was already in my home town. So in order I may not miss my medicine, he travelled by train for almost 15 hours standing whole night without any confirm seat in the challenging temperature that is above 38 degree and some time it may cross 40 as well. Just to deliver my medicine in time he voluntarily took such tiring effort without any second thought. Such was his true concern towards me. This was just one of the incidents which I vividly remember. I am always overwhelmed and touched by his great affection towards me. And I rejoice in my good Karma that I met someone like him in my life. So I thoroughly feel he is truly a blessing for me.

He was so caring and also very smart in every field whether is in studies or in other field that I didn’t need any other company after I met him. If I encounter with any problem he was among the first one who step forward to fix it as if it was his own responsibility. He always figures it out and comes up with the best of the solution. As he used to say, “I am always there for your service.” With that spirit he always implement on his words. This is how he used to pamper me in one or another way. So, it is obvious that I got a habit of being with him. He always made me so special in his eyes. However, I am the one who is privilege and blessed for his presence and the unconditional contributions he had given in my life which is beyond my imagination and reach. Talking about his contribution in my journey then I will love to write on that soon in some other blog because if I start sharing here then I need few more pages to fill. So for today let’s not talk about that part. I will try to cover it soon. Before I conclude I just want to exhibit that I cherished each and every moment shared with him. It feels like a fantasy world for me now. And I actually treasure it throughout my life and are among the best part of my life.