Women's day.... 4 you Mamma!
Today is International Women's Day. So, is celebrated in every corner of the world irrespective of cast and creed. Its very true, the WOMEN whom almost the entire society use to look downward is indeed the builder of that very 'society' and that 'society' is the second stage after the 'home'. And we all are well acquainted that the first place[Home] is swiftly run by the WOMEN in most of case.
Women are there in many forms, some are gifted in the form of mother, some shares in the form of sisters, some comes as daughters, some in wife and so on.. Though they all falls under the same category that is the 'Feminine' but [I personally feel and i guess most of too feels so] from those, 'One' that should always be considered or honoured as a top is the greatest women who steps in our life in the form of 'MOTHER' cum a goddess,who bounds us in her womb for the whole nine months[quite long duration in ones life if we ponder upon] and prevents from the outer world and gracefully bears all pains and sufferings silently just for the well being for her young one. She is the one who lead us to this outer world and brought up till now. And one with whom naturally the first and the most wonderful and the sacred relation of the our life has been tied, i.e, the relation of 'Mother and Child'. It is just a drop out of an ocean to exhibit the greatness of MOTHER in every individual's life.
Aama, Mamma, Mother or Ma, though all of these words belongs from different languages but once spoken, arise the same feeling, a feeling which entirely touches our heart and mind. Have a try…! A word ‘Mother’ itself bears such a heart touching power.
So, today I would like to dedicate this Women’s Day for the greatest woman of my life without mentioning whose name contemporary, my life will be in completed.. Of course! I am conversing about my Mamma. She is the source of my strength and happiness. I Love her so..much and more than that I respect her because of her great personalities. She is a very kind hearted woman which I personally experienced and I also accumulated many more about her past life from other sources and which adorned her life and enhances her values in my eyes. Just as we siblings giving high regards to her, so as the other too, who are well acquainted with her qualities. And being a daughter of her, is always been a source of proud for me as well as for my siblings not only because she gave us birth but because she is a perfect women enriches with all the qualities one wishes to seek in one's life as a Mother, as daughter as a wife and as a sister. And above all she is the best mother. She never let us to feel alone and sick specially to me. Though she doesnt form any partiality among her children but my siblings always teases her that she do so with me. So I might also suspect sometime because she cares me a lot, one reason is very clear behind that, few years back i was caught in the disease for almost three years since then I lost my health entirely. In a way it seems my whole life has changed[but my family always holds my hand in order I may not feel insecure]. As my elder brother lost his life by struggling with the same disease few years ago. Though my family wont utter a single word but i know the terror is in there heart and mind that this evil disease may not take me away too. So, they[my family] try their best to protect me all the time[ may god forgive me for the pain I am giving to them and to everyone but I am helpless..!! I can not change the cross lines of my forehead.. Almighty lord! M sorry!!] Apart from that, Ones I used to be the most healthiest member in our home during that time also, I was specially mothered. It may be because m very naughty in their eyes, they used to complained me often, or as i stay far away from home most of time since i joined this university orr... I may be too fortunate.
By the way do you know one of the major point was there on our relatives tongue just to irritate my sisters is that I was given a better education field as I was in private school and they were admitted in government school and so on. But that was not like as they use to point because during that time my parents can not afford there all children to be educated in private schools because they have got a financial problem. And which my siblings know, still they always used to tease just to enjoy the moment. Just as my mother cares me and our siblings, such affectionately she also cares her grand childrens too. As I am here to study 'Buddhist Philosophy' actually I feel uneasy to utter so, because I dont know much. If I am not misinterpreting, among all sentient being Buddha gave priority to the species, whom we called as 'Mother'. When I go through some Buddhist text where the concept of 'Motherhood' is conversed, I take pleasure in reading that part because it realises me of the truth that 'how grateful the mother is in everyones life' and its also easy to digest because the qualities which were described in the text were very much I see in my Amma. So after understanding the notes my regards and love increased moment after moment towards my mother.
She is not only a good mother but also proved to be a very good life partner in a sense, a wife for my father, he himself stated oftenly and we observed it too. My parents married some 40 yrs ago [Though its not an arrange marriage but not so as love marriage too, in better words, they encountered by their fate]. She cared and respect him, so as my father do. Both of them are very close [we never saw them distroying the family's peace, in a sense they dont fight and quarrel]. I salute my mother, to sustain this loving relation, she had given up her entire life for her husband and childrens. I heard, before my birth my father was caught into an illness for a long period when my elder brother and sister were very young. At that time my mamma was only there to run the home and to manage the fooding for all the members and medication of my father and many more... My god! How she managed all in a time? I even cant imagine the moment! Her life was very tough during those time or might be almighty lord was testing her patience. Her small shoulder was loaded with the huge responsibilities still she stands on, go on struggling and did her duties marvellously. And owing to her hard work, good medication and god's grace, my father got a new life and we got a happy family and a good life. And one of my mother's best point is, she never boast of her struggling towards us. She is much more than my words could ever speak...such motherhood I use to enjoy. Here its me, expressing about my feeling towards my mamma na, so I am clicking few flashes of her nature and gratitudes towards me and towards my siblings and I am sure such is the feeling of every child, because its Motherhood which is considered above all
Therefore, specially today I[though I always]humbly bow down for all the Mother of World whose greatness is beyond compare..
AND TO YOU MY DEAREST AAMA,
YOU ARE THE ONE WITH WHOM I AM PROUD TO BE WITH. YOU MIGHT BE THE FRUIT OF MY GREATEST VIRTUE I EVER ACCUMULATED. I AM FORTUNATED TO BE YOUR DAUGHTER.AND I WISH YOU MAY BE MY MOTHER IN EVERY BIRTH.ALWAYS BE THERE WITH ME LIKE YOU DO TILL NOW. LET ME SLEEP UNDER YOUR SHADOW.IF YOU UNVEIL UR SHADOW FROM MY HEAD...THEN I WILL LOSS FOREVER...........................
MY LORD! MAY ALL THE HAPPINESS N FORTUNE OF MY PART GOES IN MY MAMMA'S FAVOUR. SHE MAY GET THE WORLD OF HAPPINESS AS SHE DESERVES. BE WITH HER ALWAYS. MAY SHE LIVE LONG!!
[In the beginning of this writing I have addressed of being written this on International Women's Day i.e, on 8th March but however I couldnt complete it on that very day. So I published it on the next day.]
You trash me out!!! Wow !! beautiful writing,,, i mean it is beyond my expectation. You win me !!! Keep on doing so,,,
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